What do we DO?

Can we play and live together or I'm I trapped in my past? I understand that my roommate experince was some of my doing and some wasn't of my doing, having 300 dollar jeans stolen or a phonebill exceeding 500 dollars and almost killing this all american greenwich rich boy. I understand that my troubles played apart in some areas all of my troubles, but there is always a but. So I ask is it possible to live and work together, so I say it doesn't work for me or it didn't work for me, SO I ask what do we do?